Suddenly I had this thought running on my mind.
Guys and Gals,do not say this to your partner.

"You are the love of my life"

unless you are like 2 couples with grey hair,wrinkling skin,and perhaps lost all your teeth..and really still loving each other.

Why?

Coz somewhat I dont believe that you know what you really mean by that when you said it loud and clear.

Hmm.

Coz I so believe that for those stupid guys who claimed that they love me and wont ever love another gal(oh...suck it.cant believe that I felt guilty for that) probably said the same to the other gal now.

Oh no~I am not so lucky yet to bump back on those stupid guys.

I am just wondering when people say "I love you forever",do they know that these 3 tiny words plus that FOREVER are supposed to be life bounding?That they should be charged in court when they dont fulfill it?And then it could be another shoulder weighing object on the other partner as well?

(Just in case you think I am referring to any of you reading this,stop it.I am clearing just trying to blog my thoughts out,not necessarily involving any of you.)

If people knew all that...Then why is there infidelity after marraiges or sometime down the relationship?Why is there murder case as acts of revenges after discovering such acts of indel?

Note that it is ok to say I love you,I guess.Coz that 3 words are not capped by a lifetime.The word 'Forever' does.

Imagine if this is a chargable case...A woman sued her bf/husband.

Woman:"You said you LOVE me!!!Why are you doing this in bed with another woman?How can you do that to me?You said you love me!!!!!!!"

Man:"I know!I love you.I truly do.That was until I realise I love her too."

Woman:"You bastard,despicable liar!I hope you get the taste of your own medicine!!"

Judge:"Dear lady,as much as I pitied your case.But this lawsuit is not to your winnings.The man did said that he love you but he is not bounded by his own words.He can love you then,but he didnt promise when his love for you will end.So I am sorry.I hereby annouce that the man is release."

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Some years later.The same man sued that lady he was cheating with .

Man:"You whore!You cheated me of my money,my properties,my attention,my love!!I divorced my lovely wife of 3 years to be with you yet you do this behind me!"

Woman:"Tsk tsk!Calm down,silly man.You spent money on me on your own will.I did not cheat you in a way or another."

Man:"But I love you!You told me that you love me too.You are the love of my life!Please...come back to me."

Woman:"Oh..did i?Maybe I did said that I love you too.But You arent the love of my life.I dont love you and dont think I will love you till the end of time."

Judge:"The same case,the roles switched.I hereby annouce that the woman wins the case."

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Sigh.Fairytales dont exist in reality?

Where are all the 'living happily after'?

Why cant real life love be just as simple,as romantic as the fairy tales?

Despite all the positivism I spoke of,I just feel like gg back to hibernate for a while.

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sometimes when I look at you...I wonder where has "us" gone?